Work with the greatest
defilements first.
From the Lojong for the Layperson booklet:
Judy Lief calls this precept “a great slogan for
procrastinators,” because it requires that we look at what we avoid, put off or
refuse to deal with. Defilements are inner obstacles – habitual patterns of
thought or emotion. These obstacles sap our energy and block us from awakening
our wisdom and compassion. Notice that the slogan says “work” rather than
“eliminate,” which is more practical. Once we acknowledge which pattern is the
most obvious and disturbing, we begin to pay attention to it and become willing
to work at reducing it. As we begin to contain it, we lessen its strength until
it becomes manageable. With perseverance, we continue to work on it until we
are free of its hold over us.
Photo: A large pine tree limb next to a
smaller maple branch.
Herbalists might welcome a patch of dandelions in their
yard, but lawn enthusiasts generally see them as weeds. Instead of a fibrous
root system, these plants have a taproot – a thick, central root from which small,
lateral roots sprout. Many folks attempt to eliminate dandelions by pulling them
up by their leaves. Usually the top of the taproot will break off, leaving
enough behind for it to sprout again. When I decide to work on my spiritual
obstacles, I may choose one of my smaller habits (a leaf or two). For instance,
if I notice a tendency to interrupt people during a discussion instead of
listening, I might decide to practice keeping my mouth closed more to give them
time to present their ideas. Yet instead of actually listening, I’m secretly
planning what I’m going to say while they speak. The “taproot” of this behavior
pattern is essentially self-centeredness. Though my ego doesn’t appreciate
having this dominant issue pointed out, it is the underlying obstacle at which
my efforts need to be directed. As I begin digging around this main root, many
of those smaller, symptomatic behaviors will be reduced as a result. I’ll
always have dandelions, just maybe not as many as before.
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